The Do's and Don'ts of Visiting a New Baby: A Guide for Friends and Family

Welcoming a new baby into the world is a joyous occasion, filled with excitement, love, and abundant cuddles. However, as a friend or family member, it’s essential to approach your visit with sensitivity and care. New parents are navigating a challenging yet beautiful transition and being mindful of a few simple rules can help ensure your visit is enjoyable and appreciated. Here’s a guide to help you make the most of your visit to a new baby.

 1. Check in before you go

Before you make any plans to visit, always check with the parents first. New parents have a lot on their plates, and they may not be ready for visitors immediately. A simple text or phone call can go a long way. Ask when they would feel comfortable having guests and if there are any specific times or days that work best.

2. Keep it short and sweet

While you may be bursting with excitement to meet the little one, remember that new parents are often exhausted and overwhelmed. Limit your visit to around 30 minutes to an hour. This gives you enough time to say hello and see the baby without overstaying your welcome.

3. Respect their space

Every family has its way of settling into life with a new baby. Be conscious of their routines and boundaries. If they prefer a quiet environment or have established nap times, try to follow their lead. Respecting their space will help create a comfortable atmosphere for everyone.

 4. Follow health guidelines

Prioritise the health and safety of both the newborn and the parents. Don’t visit if you are sick. If you’re feeling unwell, have recently been sick, or have been around anyone contagious, it’s best to postpone your visit. Additionally, always wash your hands before touching the baby and consider wearing a mask if the parents request it.

5. Keep your distance, no kissing!

While it’s tempting to lean in for a kiss on the baby’s rosy cheeks, please don’t kiss the baby. Newborns have underdeveloped immune systems and can be particularly vulnerable to infections. It’s best to keep kisses for the parents!

6. Ask before you hold the baby

While it’s tempting to scoop up a newborn the moment you step through the door, always ask the parents if it’s okay. They might have specific reasons for wanting to limit the baby’s contact with others, whether it's for health reasons or simply to help the baby adjust to their new environment.

 7. Respect privacy on social media

In today’s digital age, it’s easy to want to share your excitement online. Avoid posting about the visit on social media without the parents’ permission. New parents may want to keep their baby’s early moments private and may not appreciate unapproved posts.

8. Don’t forget about mum

While the focus often shifts to the baby, don’t forget about Mum. She’s just gone through an incredible (and sometimes exhausting) experience. Make sure to check in on her, offer her a treat, or ask how she’s doing. A little kindness and attention can mean a lot.

9. Bring a thoughtful gift

Consider bringing a small gift to show your support and excitement. Practical items, meals to ease their cooking burden, or a small gift for the parents, such as a cozy blanket or a self-care item. A thoughtful gesture goes a long way in making new parents feel appreciated.

10. Offer help, but don’t overstep

New parents can use extra hands around the house but be mindful about how you offer your help. Instead of assuming they need assistance with specific tasks, ask how you can help. Offer to prepare a meal, do some light cleaning, or simply run errands they might find overwhelming during this busy time.

11. Be supportive and listen

Sometimes the best gift you can offer is a listening ear. New parents can experience a rollercoaster of emotions, from joy to exhaustion to frustration. Be there to support them by listening and offering encouragement. Empathy can go a long way in helping them navigate their new reality.

12. Respect their parenting choices

Every parent has different views and approaches to raising their child. If the new parents express specific preferences or routines, be respectful of their choices. Offering advice can be well-meaning but know when to step back and support their decisions instead.

13. Stay flexible

Finally, be prepared for changes in plans. New parents often have unpredictable schedules due to feedings, diaper changes, and sleep schedules. If something comes up, be understanding and willing to reschedule your visit.

Visiting a new baby is a beautiful way to show your love and support to new parents. By following these guidelines, you’ll help create a positive experience for everyone involved and promote a nurturing relationship with the little one. Remember, the most important thing you can bring is your love and congratulations as they embark on this incredible journey of parenthood. Happy visiting!

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